There are certain things that ladies should not do while engaged in a web based relationship with a guy. These things are sure to put a fast and absolute end to any further communications with him.
When chatting online or by e mail never write your own life story. His eyes would glaze over and he’ll fall out of his chair. Keep it short and sweet until he asks for details. Then provide them little by little and only answer the questions he asks for.
For example: If he asks how many siblings you have, he is NOT asking for the details of your interaction with them. He actually simply wishes to know how many you have. Say you’ve got 2 (or whatever is true) then ask how many he has. For each question he asks you, it is best to ask one of him. Nothing turns a person off like a very long- winded lady who just doesn’t know when to shut up or how to listen.
By no means, ever, EVER lie. I really believe that lies could catch up with you sooner or later. Many women (and men) lie regarding their age, marital status, job, height, weight and a bunch of other things in their internet profiles. That is a huge mistake. If you find a man who you are really thinking about, he will find out you lied and there goes any chance of the relationship progressing. So, just be honest. There’s somebody out there who will like you – even come to love you – for exactly the person you are.
Don’t be too eager. It makes you look desperate and it actually puts a man off. They’re first and foremost conquerors and if getting the particular person of their wishes to like them too is just too easy, they will quickly lose interest. I do not mean play “hard-to-get”. I mean, don’t push for a face-to-face meeting. Do not e mail them or IM them too often. Play it safe and play it cool.
With a little good luck you would meet a very good guy. If not then you will need to learn 3 things. 1) How you can spot a player . 2) How you can spot a cheater . 3) How you can spot a player and a cheater .